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Top ten reasons to feel like a goddess

(this is according to the internet... sorry I have no other things to post as of this time so I just copied this interesting topic)

There are so many things about being a woman today that we can all be thankful for. Our lives are so full of opportunity and prospects for change. I thought I would start out by listing 10 reasons why I think we should all feel like a Goddess in our life.


  1. Each of us are the master of our own lives. It’s true. Even when it feels like we aren’t there are so many choices that we make everyday that are truly ours to make. Everything from our insignificant outfit choices to the more important things like choosing to get up and go to our jobs every day.\
  2. There are at least two people in this world you have profoundly affected. We can influence the world more than we ever believe we can. Sometimes the smallest thing can create life change in another person. It could be a meal for a homeless man you meet on your way to the bus; it could be a friend that you give advice to. At some point, you have said something, done something or shared a relationship with someone and that action has sent their life on a new path. That’s a powerful thing!
  3. Your greatest success. I believe that there is at least one thing for all of us that we can look at and feel was the most successful and rewarding thing we’ve ever done. It could be starting a business, graduating college, becoming a mother, or something so small as paying our bills on time every month. Find what your greatest success so far in life has been and remind yourself everyday how great it is.
  4. Your place in life. Now, sure I know that some of us may struggle to make ends meet while others are no doubt driving around in their dream cars. Nevertheless, if you are here on the internet, chances are you are still one of the richest people in the world. And chances are, no one is keeping you from educating yourself or telling you that you can’t leave your house. Just being able to eat three full meals a day of virtually anything that your little heart desire places you in a truly blessed class of people. If only every woman could be so lucky.
  5. Brain Power. Women have amazing capabilities! Not only can we deal with anger and other emotions better than a man, but we also have brains that don’t compartmentalize as much. This means that we can multitask better (as every woman knows- we are so much better than men at multitasking); but more importantly, it means that our brains are also able to recover from injuries such as a stroke. The non-compartmentalization allows the different parts of our brain to pick up the slack for another area that might be injured or even just busy with something else. Researchers have even found that women have more brain cells in the areas of judgment, personality, working memory and planning.
  6. Longevity. In developed countries, women can live on average 5-6 years longer. Some studies have attributed this to the fact that our hearts pumping power never declines as we age, whereas a man’s can decrease by up to 25% by the time he reaches 70. Whatever the reason behind it, we can feel good about knowing that with good nurturing and care of ourselves we can live to a ripe old age.
  7. We can process feelings. Yes, I know that there are a lot of men out there that can process feelings too. The difference though is that in our society, we’re allowed to express our emotions- and it is for the most part acceptable. Because we don’t have emotional “limitations” like men means that we develop our abilities to understand and express our feelings in a healthier way.
  8. We can have babies. This is probably something men would not consider a blessing, but it truly is a magnificent and powerful thing. If you’ve ever had a baby then you understand what I’m talking about. If you haven’t, then feel proud and grateful that you have the ability to grow and nurture a wonderful little human being within yourself.
  9. Sex! Yeah, yeah. Good sex might not distinguish us from men, but I think the ability to emotionally involve ourselves in sex makes it better, as does the sheer number of erogenous zones we have to take advantage of. Guys may have more than one, but the one seems to monopolize their efforts…
  10. “Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.” I thought I would let Dr. Seuss complete my list. I won’t even bother to elaborate on this because I think it is absolutely wonderful just as it is. This one thing alone makes us all a Goddess in our world.


There are of course a million other things that can make us all feel like Goddesses of our lives. Many of them are very personal that only the individual can define and appreciate. One things for sure- I, we are grateful to be called "women of the generation".

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