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When I returned home last semestral break, I wondered why there are already pimples in her forehead. And I got more shocked upon hearing that she, my sister already engaged in a relationship, a relationship I can describe as premature and non-sense. I cannot just imagine that at her young age, 12, she already has her "boyfriend". My God, what's in the mind of this girl? What made her decide to answer a "YES!" to a boy who is 3 years older than her. Anyway, age doesn't matter, but is it really love they feel right now? Well, I don't think so!

I say so because when I was in third year, I learned that feelings like those are only infatuations. Though I am not the one holding her heart, I can still sense that it's only a product of shallow admiration to a young guy.

But the question now is, can I stop her? Do I have right to steal what makes her happy?

I got a chance of talking to her one time and she said, "Magbuot man ka bih!". With that answer, I know she has still no knowledge of what she entered. I only gave her advices because I know, I'm only enough with that, since I didn't experience the same thing yet and I have nothing to share with her.

But before we end the short and quite funny conversation, I told her to stop such "foolishness". It was not my intention to say it's a foolish thing, but it's the only way to convince her to cut the relationship. Because I'm afraid she might feel the hurt early of crying over a wrong guy, and I don't want her to be a heartbreaker.

I hope she'll keep these words of mine in her thoughts, and realize what's right and wrong in loving.